- Member Type: Silver Member
- Age: 43
- Location: Toronto, ON, Canada
- Orientation: Straight (Post-Op M2F )
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- Looking For: Admirers, Friends
- Last Active: Jan 25th, 2018
- Joined: Jun 19th, 2014
I've always known I'm a girl, but the fear, shame and struggle against family and society made becoming myself take much too long.
I'm 5'9", weigh 125 lbs., and have a 36B-27-38 figure. I started HRT for good on my 26th birthday. My 27th birthday present to myself was an orchi. and a few months later I went full-time and legally changed my name to Bebe Edwards. Finances and family considerations delayed my vajayjay day to March 5, 2013.
I always wanted to be just like my mother with a vagina and breasts and hated the mistake between my legs. She was my role model and femininity coach. I was constantly trying on her things and started buying and wearing makeup, lingerie, and girls' clothes and shoes when I was 12. My father was angry and hostile, and school was hell. Pretending to be a boy was awful, and it only got worse as I got older.
In less than a year from starting HRT my face and figure said all-girl. My look morphed from androgynous to stylish career woman. It was chic pantsuits and office outfits with low heels every day, and pretty lingerie underneath. I was wearing makeup, nail polish, pierced ears and jewelry, and my hair was streaked and cut in a Sassoon asymmetrical bob.
I couldn't pretend anymore and people were freaking out; it was time to be the woman I was born to be. HR transferred me to the more "appropriate" position of executive assistant. I got tired of being the office trannie, so now live stealth.
I've dated men since I was 13 and would love to marry. My only advice is don't wait a day longer to be who you really are. I only regret I didn't transition in my teens.
Don't get the idea it's been a bed of roses. Prior to transition I was scorned, bullied, beaten, sexually assaulted and discriminated against. Now I face the daily challenges, microaggressions and threats all women face. But I wouldn't have it any other way.
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