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""the heart wants what the heart wants""

  • Member Type: Silver Member
  • Age: 64 (Birthday this month)
  • Location: Spartanburg, SC, United States
  • Orientation: (Prefer Not to Say) (Non-Op M2F )
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  • Looking For: Friends
  • Last Active: Nov 21st, 2018
  • Joined: Jan 20th, 2015
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About Me

"Nothing is impossible, the word itself says 'I'm possible'!" Audrey Hepburn.

Owner/Lady Boss of URNOTALONE.COM as of Feb 27, 2015.

T is still the backwater of LBGT, in spite of recent successes: Janet Mock, Andreja Pejic, Laverne Cox, and others. All are intelligent and successful women, who have been very open about their transition and are very much in public. So there is progress, but transgender is still not mainstream by any measure. Progress is happening, slow, baby steps at time followed by reversals, but enough for me at least to remain optimistic.

About me, I am retired, long time transgender, who can remember wanting to be a ballerina when she was 6. Not full time (maybe 70/30 ish). Full time is still the goal.

Was married earlier in life and have been in several LTRs before and after my marriage. Not looking for a romantic relationship! Friends only.

I love conversation, politics, fashion, and anything related to URNA.


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  • Kristine Fox
    Kristine Fox 10/24/2018 05:54 Love ya pammy
  • Nina Baylor
    Nina Baylor 9/09/2018 16:52 Hi Pamela, love your smile and your style. Thanks for all you do to support our online community. You are truly appreciated. -NB
  • Shirley
    Shirley 8/31/2018 22:24 A natural beauty ! impressive 😎
  • Demi Morris
    Demi Morris 7/18/2018 08:05 Hi Pamela..Great Job !!! and I Love you hair :)
  • Jessica St John
    Jessica St John 6/26/2018 08:02 Hi Pamela. Thanks for stopping by my page. Jessica
  • Jasmine Jubillee Gee
    Jasmine Jubillee Gee 6/20/2018 17:13 Hello Pamela, thank you for visiting. Great bio. Thank you for being part of
  • Jeff
    Jeff 6/11/2018 18:10 Hello Pamela, how are you doing tonight, beautiful lady! :)
  • Cary
    Cary 6/04/2018 17:01 Hello Pam. How are you tonight?
  • Marcie
    Marcie 4/25/2018 17:35 Hi Pam,Thank you for all you do for our community! Loved what you said in your profile and I plan to become a gold member soon to support this invaluable site!Hugs,Marcie
  • Michelle C.
    Michelle C. 4/24/2018 05:16 Hi Pam

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