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  • Member Type: Silver Member
  • Age: 64
  • Location: Spartanburg, SC, United States
  • Orientation: (Prefer Not to Say) (Non-Op M2F )
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  • Looking For: Friends
  • Last Active: Feb 24th, 2018
  • Joined: Jan 20th, 2015
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About Me

"Nothing is impossible, the word itself says 'I'm possible'!" Audrey Hepburn.

Owner/Lady Boss of URNOTALONE.COM as of Feb 27, 2015.

T is still the backwater of LBGT, in spite of recent successes: Janet Mock, Andreja Pejic, Laverne Cox, and others. All are intelligent and successful women, who have been very open about their transition and are very much in public. So there is progress, but transgender is still not mainstream by any measure. Progress is happening, slow, baby steps at time followed by reversals, but enough for me at least to remain optimistic.

About me, I am retired, long time transgender, who can remember wanting to be a ballerina when she was 6. Not full time (maybe 70/30 ish). Full time is still the goal.

Was married earlier in life and have been in several LTRs before and after my marriage. Not looking for a romantic relationship! Friends only.

I love conversation, politics, fashion, and anything related to URNA.


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  • Juliet Lewis
    Juliet Lewis 11/24/2017 15:54 Happy birthday, sweetie!
  • Michelle C.
    Michelle C. 11/24/2017 08:01 HUGZ Pamela - Happy Birthday!!
  • Lynne Love 11/24/2017 04:29 happy birthday xoxoxooxxo
  • Ashley Houston
    Ashley Houston 11/24/2017 04:23 HAPPY BIRTHDAY!
  • Melanie Bowman
    Melanie Bowman 11/23/2017 22:18 Pamela Happy Birthday to a very very special and beautiful lady. That is Beauty that starts on the inside and flows all the way out for all to see. I hope that your day is filled with a lot of happiness and joy and the you have a lot of fun. Hugs Melanie
  • Roxy
    Roxy 11/10/2017 15:55 Hi Pam. Wishing you an early birthday since I might not be able to catch you on the exact day. Hope you enjoy yourself and wish you many more. Hugs.
  • Vani T
    Vani T 8/05/2017 15:16 Coucou!
  • Carisa
    Carisa 7/31/2017 18:07 Hi Pam, Thank you for doing such a great job on this website. Many hugs from me to you :)
  • Elvita
    Elvita 7/24/2017 21:30 Pam, many thanks for becoming a friend :-)
  • Roxy
    Roxy 7/24/2017 16:53 Hi Pam. I just love seeing you in the chat room. Hope your days are great n c u around. XOXO

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