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""the heart wants what the heart wants""

  • Member Type: Silver Member
  • Age: 65
  • Location: Spartanburg, SC, United States
  • Orientation: (Prefer Not to Say) (Non-Op M2F )
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  • Looking For: Friends
  • Last Active: Jul 22nd, 2019
  • Joined: Jan 20th, 2015
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About Me

"Nothing is impossible, the word itself says 'I'm possible'!" Audrey Hepburn.

Owner/Lady Boss of URNOTALONE.COM as of Feb 27, 2015.

T is still the backwater of LBGT, in spite of recent successes: Janet Mock, Andreja Pejic, Laverne Cox, and others. All are intelligent and successful women, who have been very open about their transition and are very much in public. So there is progress, but transgender is still not mainstream by any measure. Progress is happening, slow, baby steps at time followed by reversals, but enough for me at least to remain optimistic.

About me, I am retired, long time transgender, who can remember wanting to be a ballerina when she was 6. Not full time (maybe 70/30 ish). Full time is still the goal.

Was married earlier in life and have been in several LTRs before and after my marriage. Not looking for a romantic relationship! Friends only.

I love conversation, politics, fashion, and anything related to URNA.


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  • Wilemina Andrea Satin
    Wilemina Andrea Satin 6/28/2019 06:13 You are soo gorgeously feminine!!
  • Jerri Leaf
    Jerri Leaf 5/28/2019 20:40 Hey gorgeous!!! Totally missed you 😊 Thrilled to be back ❤️
  • vicky
    vicky 4/03/2019 17:24 i cant get on again. tried chrome, firefox and safari. sigh
  • dee anne
    dee anne 12/10/2018 15:02 Nice job on the update letter.thanks for all your hard work
  • Meran 11/25/2018 05:23 Happy B-day. Hope we can meet up someday soon.
  • Hailey 11/24/2018 13:07 Happy Birthday, Pam!! And many more...
  • GypsyAtlanta 11/24/2018 12:53 Happy Birthday Beautiful, its your day!
  • Kristine Fox
    Kristine Fox 11/24/2018 06:26 Happy Birthday Pammy
  • Juliet Lewis
    Juliet Lewis 11/24/2018 05:37 Happy birthday, sweetie!
  • Michelle C.
    Michelle C. 11/24/2018 04:36 Happy Birthday Pam - hope all your birthday wishes come true !!!

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