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""the heart wants what the heart wants""

  • Member Type: Silver Member
  • Age: 63
  • Location: Spartanburg, SC, United States
  • Orientation: (Prefer Not to Say) (Non-Op M2F )
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  • Looking For: Friends
  • Last Active: Jun 25th, 2017
  • Joined: Jan 20th, 2015
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About Me

"Nothing is impossible, the word itself says 'I'm possible'!" Audrey Hepburn.

Owner/Lady Boss of URNOTALONE.COM as of Feb 27, 2015.

T is still the backwater of LBGT, in spite of recent successes: Janet Mock, Andreja Pejic, Laverne Cox, and others. All are intelligent and successful women, who have been very open about their transition and are very much in public. So there is progress, but transgender is still not mainstream by any measure. Progress is happening, slow, baby steps at time followed by reversals, but enough for me at least to remain optimistic.

About me, I am retired, long time transgender, who can remember wanting to be a ballerina when she was 6. Not full time (maybe 70/30 ish). Full time is still the goal.

Was married earlier in life and have been in several LTRs before and after my marriage. Not looking for a romantic relationship! Friends only.

I love conversation, politics, fashion, and anything related to URNA.


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  • Cary Bensen
    Cary Bensen 5/12/2017 04:48 Hey girl, thank you for putting up those posts. I have yet to start the 2nd season of Sens8 except for the first episode. I plan to get too it soon.
  • Michele M Jillian
    Michele M Jillian 3/14/2017 18:46 Pamela, Hope your staying out of trouble? (Smile) Take Care Be well.........Mj
  • Michele Smiles
    Michele Smiles 2/10/2017 14:02 Hi Pam! Just stopping by. A retired T girl like yourself. Stay sweet!
  • Jeff
    Jeff 12/28/2016 06:14 Good morning Pam and how are you today?
  • Jeff
    Jeff 12/27/2016 05:56 Hello Pam. Thank you for accepting my friend request. How are you today?
  • stevi
    stevi 12/26/2016 05:46 Pam thank you for your help, I got my first picture up
  • Melanie Bowman
    Melanie Bowman 12/21/2016 19:23 Pam Thank you so much for your very sweet words in my journal. if it were not for this site I would probably be still in deep dark closet. This is always my first choice to come for meeting very special ladies. I hope you have a very blessed Christmas and a very special New Year. Hugs Melanie
  • Michael
    Michael 11/24/2016 10:56 Lucky you, a birthday on the same day as Thanksgiving. Happy Birthday and Happy Thanksgiving.
  • Juliet Lewis
    Juliet Lewis 11/24/2016 04:53 Happy birthday, sweetie!
  • Ashley Houston
    Ashley Houston 11/24/2016 03:45 HAPPY BIRTHDAY!

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