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  • Member Type: Gold PLUS Member
  • Age: 50
  • Location: Pasadena, CA, United States
  • Orientation: Straight (Non-Op M2F )
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  • Looking For: Friends
  • Last Active: Mar 21st, 2019
  • Joined: Mar 31st, 2015

About Me

First off I am NOT into males AT ALL!!! ALL pigs, pervs, trolls, trany chasers & closet homosexuals will be blocked!!!

Second, I am a Two Spirited/Transgender Person living here in SoCal looking for friendships (only) with TG or GG ladies in my area. I don't drink, do drugs or smoke. Also not into clubs or bars. I do like movies, plays, flea markets, sightseeing, shopping, road trips and being out and about in the real world.

I have been through a lot and wish to pass this on to others.
Everybody's journey is different but I do highly recommend therapy to help sort out this mess of emotions we have been given. Some people jump head first into taking hormones but, this is not for everyone. You really need do the emotional work and personal exploration to really understand what life is best for you, before deciding on irreversible changes. Having electrolysis and laser treatments done, along with letting go and letting me be me, not watching every word, gesture, movement, has made a big difference in how I feel about myself and has helped to lessen the anxiety I felt. There are no quick fixes or shortcuts, it can take years to really find yourself and go through your transition. Do not think that there is only one set formula you have to follow, being Transgndered is very complex and everyone's path is different. I feel it is very important, especially for young T-girls, to get away and take the time to really understand yourself and find the place that is best for you, before life gets too complicated with relationships and kids. DON'T get married and DON'T have kids until you figure things out!!! This DOES NOT GO AWAY and nothing, other than dealing with it, will help or make your life better. As painful as it maybe you need to let go and let yourself follow wherever path you need to be on. The sooner you do this the happier and more at peace you will be.
Thanks for reading to the end,
Marina

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  • Lisa T
    Lisa T 3/06/2019 16:48 Hi Marina, thank you for the very nice welcome!
  • Steph Fredericks
    Steph Fredericks 2/12/2019 09:21 Thank you so much!
  • Jamie
    Jamie 2/11/2019 17:47 Thanks and best wishes, Marina.
  • Darla Southern
    Darla Southern 2/11/2019 14:41 Thanks for your kind words
  • amy
    amy 1/18/2019 21:00 Thank you Marina! Love the insight you share on your About me page, I wish I had followed some of your advice when I was younger.Wish you the best!
  • Melanie Bowman 12/24/2018 10:51 Marina Thank you so very much for your very sweet wish. Hugs Melanie
  • Alysson Cross
    Alysson Cross 12/22/2018 13:34 Marina,Thank you for the note! Our community and association is sooooo important for all of us. Thank you for the note!
  • Melanie Bowman 12/22/2018 11:57 Marina Stopping by to say hi. I hope you have a very blessed Christmas and a great New Year. Hugs Melanie
  • Vani T
    Vani T 12/14/2018 15:32 Thanks Marina. Happy holidays to you!
  • Katia Steelman Walker
    Katia Steelman Walker 10/30/2018 12:17 Thank you for the words. May your future allow you to achieve all your dreams.

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