- Member Type: Gold PLUS Member
- Age: 49
- Location: Pasadena, CA, United States
- Orientation: Straight (Non-Op M2F )
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- Looking For: Friends
- Last Active: Sep 20th, 2017
- Joined: Mar 31st, 2015
First off I am NOT into males AT ALL!!! ALL pigs, pervs, trolls and closet homosexuals will be blocked!!!
Second, I am a Two Spirited/Transgender Person living here in So. Cal. I have been through a lot in life and wish to pass this on to others. As a Two Spirited Person transitioning would not be the best choice for me, it would just put me on the other side of the same issue. The decisions I have made to do electrolysis and laser treatments along with letting go and letting me be me, not watching every word, gesture, movement or anything I might show interest in, has made a big difference in how I feel about myself. I feel less of the need to dress now that I am living as more of a whole person and am more at peace with my two selves than I have ever been before. I do not deny or try to hide what I am anymore.
Everybody's journey is different but I do highly recommend therapy to help sort out this mess of emotions we have been given so that you can make the right decision and find peace in your life. Some jump head first into taking hormones but this is not for everyone. You really should do the emotional work and exploration to really understand what life is best for you, before deciding on irreversible changes. There are no quick fixes, it will take years to really find yourself. Do not think that there is only one path, being Transgndered is very complex. I feel it is very important, especially for young T-girls, to get away and take the time to really understand yourself and find the place that is best for you, before life gets too complicated with relationships and kids. DON'T get married and DON'T have kids until you figure things out! This DOES NOT go away and nothing other than dealing with it will help or change you. As painful as it may be you need to let go and let yourself fall wherever you need to go. The sooner you do this the happier and more at peace you will be. URNotAlone.
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