- Member Type: Gold PLUS Member
- Age: 49 (Birthday this month)
- Location: Pasadena, CA, United States
- Orientation: Straight (Non-Op M2F )
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- Looking For: Friends
- Last Active: Apr 25th, 2017
- Joined: Mar 31st, 2015
First off I am NOT into males AT ALL!!! ALL pigs, pervs, trolls and closet homosexuals will be blocked!!!
Second, I am a Two Spirited/Transgender Person living here in So. Cal. I have been through a lot in the last two years. The loss of my greatest friend/wife, weekly therapy and lots of soul searching to try find my place in this world. As a Two Spirited Person transitioning would not be the best choice for me, it would just put me on the other side of the same issue. The decisions I have made to do electrolysis and laser treatments along with letting go and letting me be me, not watching every word, gesture, movement or anything I might show interest in, has made a big difference in how I feel about myself. I feel less of the need to dress now that I am living as more of a whole person and am more at peace with my two selves than I have ever been before. Marina will always be part of my life but, my goal in life is to be at peace and to find the happiest place for both of us to be.
Everybody's journey is different but I do highly recommend therapy to help sort out this mess of emotions we have been given so we can make the right decision, to find peace in each of our lives. I feel it is very important, especially for young T-girls, to get away and take the time to really understand yourself and find the place that is best for you, before life gets too complicated with relationships and kids. Don't get married and don't have kids until you figure things out!
I am looking for transgendered friends to connect with and possibly go out with. I don't drink, don't smoke or don't do any drugs. Also not into bars or clubs. I refuse to live down to the stereotypes that are put on us.
Movies, people watching, theaters, museums or shopping, of course, is more my kind of thing. But, am going out less.
Thanks for stopping by and reading to the end,
My Best Friends