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Judy Walstedter

  • Member Type: Silver Member
  • Age: 59
  • Location: Westfield, NJ, United States
  • Orientation: Pansexual (Non-Op M2F )
  • Listed As: Girl (M2F)
  • Looking For: Admirers, Couples, Friends, Genetic Female (GG), Girls (MtoF)
  • Last Active: Apr 22nd, 2018
  • Joined: Aug 6th, 2016

About Me

Why I love being a CD/TV, for many reasons, let's start by stating I am very shy, timid and reserved white male who has been diagnosed with Aspberger's Syndrome, so I miss out with the social skills and graces and social cues on how to communicate with the opposite sex/gender and form relationships with women in particular. So I was and still am a misfit and outsider from the mainstream. So as male it all falls the male to earn a good living and have a nice car and have good looks in order to get attention from the ladies. If you don't have any of those traits, you most likely to be disregarded as not worthy of the ladies attention. Then there is the nerve to get up to ask the ladies out on a date. So then you go to the lady and ask her out and see what the consequences are, if you rejects, that hurts and people have told me not to take it personally but with Aspberger's, it is very hard to not take personally. So I felt like I was never going to understand the opposite sex/gender until I was in their shoes.

One day like in my blog, I go into a fight and lost to a bully who had me admit to being a sissy. Only then did I learn what it meant to be a sissy, "effeminated male", so I needed to know what it felt like to be girl/woman by getting into their clothes and their lifestyle. So I started by getting my first pair of panties and trying them on, then it started to do something to do me like made me feel very feminine and then I wanted more of it. So then I started to go out and buy more femine clothing like bras and pantyhose, especially pantyhose with panties under, totally got me into the scene and the feeling and thinking like the girls. Then I went further into getiing skirts and blouses and high heels and makeup. Going full tilt into becoming a girl. It totally consumed me. Having those clothes on and looking into the mirror and seeing Judy made think I understand the other side. So I really enjoyed seeing and feeling my other side of m

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  • silky
    silky 4/14/2018 19:54 Hi Judy - your profile story was very touching - thanks for sharing it
  • Lynne Love
    Lynne Love 4/02/2018 06:11 drop a note if you pass near KC,MO and sorry about your Mother xoxoxoo
  • Francine
    Francine 2/11/2018 12:18 Hi Judy. Thanks for stopping by. Take care ~ Francine
  • Juliet Lewis
    Juliet Lewis 1/30/2018 05:05 Happy birthday, sweetie!
  • Dee
    Dee 1/30/2018 04:23 Happy Birthday Judy
  • Ashley Houston
    Ashley Houston 1/30/2018 03:31 HAPPY BIRTHDAY!
  • Melanie Bowman
    Melanie Bowman 1/29/2018 22:26 Judy Happy Birthday to a very very special and beautiful lady. That is Beauty that starts on the inside and flows all the way out for all to see. I hope that your day is filled with a lot of happiness and joy and the you have a lot of fun. Hugs Melanie
  • Sue Newjersey
    Sue Newjersey 1/04/2018 12:08 Happy New Year...Stay warm
  • Joan C Cute
    Joan C Cute 1/02/2018 09:33 wow, it was so nice to get your bday wishes, hope you have a great new year, we need to chat one of this days, Joan
  • Suzi
    Suzi 12/31/2017 16:20 Dear Judy - Thanks for the nice comment. Hope you can join us at Keystone Conference (Harrisburg, PA 6-11 March)

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