Kelli Nicole Elam
"When I first signed onto URNA, more than 6 years ago, I really did feel "alone"....even though, then, I was married(I'd not yet come out to her)...and, I'd not met another transperson(not for another 3 years, 2006)....and, I'd also just began chatting(here, and other places) with other girls/like-minded souls...and, from all of those wonderful(well, most of the time ;) ) chats, and from blogs, I slowly but surely came out of my self-imposed shell, and the suppresed life I had lived for all those years began to melt away. And, I could see my personality change, for the better. Or, maybe it was always there, yet hidden(supressed)...but anyway, I just wanted to thank each and every one of you girls, even if we've only said "Hi" here, or elsewhere, because if it wasn't for you girls, and wonderful places like this to communicate by, I'd still be in that dank, ugly, lonely closet. Thank you!! (HUGS) And, if there's any girl who now feels the way I used to, please don't hesitate to stop by here, or if you see me in the chatroom, please say Hi, and maybe I can play a small part in helping you out of your "shell" No matter where you are in the transgender spectrum, there really is a place for you, either here, or other quality transgender sites, and of course, in the "real" world! Celebrate and embrace your femininity(or for you transmen, your masculinity), Gals!! It's a very special Gift, and, at least for me, I intend to explore it all in every way possible. Thank you Jon, Vicky, Dan, and EVERYONE here!! (HUGS)"
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Status: Online Now
Vital Stats
- Member Type: Silver Member
- Age: 48
- Location: Greenville, IL, United States
- Orientation: Trans-Lesbian (Pre-Op M2F )
- Listed As: Friend, Girl (M2F)
- Looking For: Friends, Genetic Female (GG), Girls (MtoF)
- Last Active: Nov 7th, 2009
- Joined: Aug 19th, 2003
About Me
Hi everyone! I'm just your average(but, then again, are any of us girls "average"??) transgirl....though, really, in my own mind, I've felt this way for a LONG time. But, it would be nice to have the "visuals" to align with my heart and soul. Current "stats": 6'2", 134 lbs, 38(someday)-28-34, auburn hair, brown eyes...i.e., just another whispy transsexual gal, eagerly wanting to begin a "new life", and, truly, finally BE what I should have been all along. On here, I mostly like to chat with other TG's, CD's, GGs etc., but I'll chat with anyone who's nice. What do I like to wear, you ask? Well, if it's pink....;-)
After almost 8 years of marriage, and around 10 of knowing one another, my wife and I are no longer married. We will always love one another, in some way, of that I have no doubt. I hope she does find love again...I know she certainly deserves such happiness. I have been SO fortunate to have had her in my life for the past 10 years. Love you always, BJ!
UPDATE!!:(12/7/2007) I am now officially "Out"! :-) Thank you to Miranda, Eve, Marie, Kelly, Lola, and many other girls out there in Beautiful San Francisco--You made my first night out, on my birthday no less, a beautiful time! And, also, that same weekend, I came out to my brother and his wife--they will support me! Omg, what a weekend!!
SCC was THE best time!! Please read my journal. :-)
I am a single woman now. Not exactly sure what that means, or where I go from here....but, along with transitioning, it will certainly not be uneventful! ;-) I'm very excited about my life though!
The friendships I have made here, and elsewhere online, have enriched my life beyond measure...Thank you to all who have befriended me, and made me feel like I truly belong. I really do love you all!! ((HUGS))
Anyway.... thank you URNA! Vicky, Jon, you do a wond
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- Jane S 11/06/2009 03:52 Hey Honey, just wanted to say I think of you often. Take care, and continue to enjoy life.Hugs, Jane
- Jillian J. Jones 10/23/2009 04:52 Kelli, I think you're wonderfully brave in addition to being beautiful!
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