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Absinthe Minded
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  • Member Type: Silver Member
  • Site Chat:Chat with me
  • Age: 36
  • Location: Chicago, IL, United States
  • Orientation: Pansexual (Genetic Female )
  • Listed As: Admirer, Friend, Girl (M2F)
  • Looking For: Friends, Girls (MtoF), Models, Performers
  • Last Active: Apr 8th, 2011
  • Joined: Apr 4th, 2004

About Me

Hi ladies, I'm an attractive GENETIC FEMALE iso a smart, skinny TS woman in her late 20's or early 30's.

I'm not into chatting online or long-distance dating, so I'd strongly prefer to meet people who live in or near Chicago, but I do travel a lot and enjoy making platonic friends all over the world, so if you are a kindred spirit of any gender who shares my passion for costume design (especially goth/glam and j-pop styles), cabarets, clubbing, trivia, reading, writing, jazz, ethnic cooking, thrift shopping, drag shows, singing in the shower, sleeping late and boozing it up with friends, feel free to write and say hi!

My "day job" is repairing and reselling computers, but I'm also an alternative fashion and costume enthusiast and in the past I've worked with makeup and hair, and marketed exotic clothing on eBay and at fetish expos. Although I love the aesthetics of leather, latex and pvc, I am very much a vanilla girl (and more of a bottom) when it comes to sex, so I am not a good partner for submissive ladies or anyone who is heavily into kink.

I have been a part of the LGBTQ community for years, and have friends from all walks of life, but it seems as though many transvestites and cross dressers are attracted to genetic girls, while very few transsexual women in my target age group are romantically interested in cis-gendered women. The few who do identify as lesbian or bisexual frequently want to be "feminized", controlled, or extensively mentored, and it's been tough for me to find an assertive, self-sufficient mate, especially one who doesn't live hundreds of miles away.

GUYS: Please note that I'm a born female who is here seeking a transsexual female partner. I am certainly not a man-hater, in fact the majority of my real-life friends are male, but if you are a masculine guy who came here looking for a t-girl to date or sleep with, then we REALLY aren't a match

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  • Melanie Bowman
    Melanie Bowman 10/22/2011 22:15 Happy Birthday to a great looking Lady. I hope you you had a very special day and all the fun a girl could ever want. Hugs Melanie
  • Melanie Bowman
    Melanie Bowman 10/22/2010 20:35 Absinthe Happy Birthday to a great looking Lady. I hope you had a very special day. Hugs Melanie
  • Juliet Lewis
    Juliet Lewis 10/22/2010 06:47 Happy birthday, sweetie!
  • Catherine DeBoudoir 4/27/2010 09:34 I'm sorry but you look like entirly to much fun!Have a great week.Cathy

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