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Barbara Desmonsche

"Locked in my Chastity"

  • Member Type: Silver Member
  • Age: 54
  • Location: New Windsor, NY, United States
  • Orientation: Straight (Genetic Male )
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  • Looking For: Friends
  • Last Active: Sep 20th, 2017
  • Joined: Aug 21st, 2004

About Me

May 18, 2017: This past weekend I got a chance to dress, go shopping, and hang out with a couple of wonderful friends who met "barbara" for the very first time. Not only did they finally get to see me dressed, they insisted on doing my makeup and choosing an outfit and the wig that they wanted me to wear while we went to the club. i hope that i can get together with them to hang out again, it was the most fun i have had in a very long time.


i'm a male to female crossdresser & have been dressing since i was 5 or 6 years old. The first time i went out in makeup, wig, a dress & high heels, was when i was 12. i played hooky from school so i could stay at home & transform myself to go for a walk. The first time i went out to party at a club was at the age of 19 in NYC.

i'm married to a woman who's aware of my "feminine side", & sometimes participates. She has recently decided to explore BD/SM with me, & has happily become the Keyholder to my locked chastity. She makes any & all decisions to whether i am released, & i am grateful to know i belong to her.

My wife & i have been using the locked chastity device on a regular basis for several years & i love it. As frustrating as it can be remaining locked & not able to have an orgasm, my attentiveness to my wife has increased dramatically, & has made her a very happy woman. In turn i am much happier knowing she is pleased & in control.

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  • Empress Czarina
    Empress Czarina 9/16/2017 10:59 How have you been ?
  • Kristine Fox
    Kristine Fox 7/20/2017 03:05 That would be lovely ;-)
  • Empress Czarina
    Empress Czarina 7/03/2017 13:17 ;)
  • Kristine Fox
    Kristine Fox 7/02/2017 07:31 Hi Sugar ;-)
  • boyd Schuman
    boyd Schuman 5/27/2017 08:10 Great update
  • Empress Czarina
    Empress Czarina 2/09/2017 13:32 Hello to you. Hope all is well. Stay warm
  • Marina
    Marina 2/01/2017 16:52 My best to you on your journey and those last 5lbs.
  • Melanie Bowman
    Melanie Bowman 1/01/2017 17:47 Barbara Happy Birthday to a very very special and beautiful lady. That is Beauty that starts on the inside and flows all the way out for all to see. I hope that your day is filled with a lot of happiness and joy and the you have a lot of fun. Hugs Melanie
  • boyd Schuman
    boyd Schuman 1/01/2017 05:45 A most happy birthday to you this month, Barbara
  • Juliet Lewis
    Juliet Lewis 1/01/2017 05:31 Happy birthday, sweetie!

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